To RSVP or Not to RSVP, that is the Question

Are you guilty of not RSVPing...(I know... the ing....) (chuckling to myself). Well you don't realize the importance until you are planning your event and realize the cost depends on how many people are coming.  You don't want to over spend and God forbids if too many people show up and you run out of food and beverage. OMG (We all have gone to a social at least once where the event runs out of food before you even get a chance to a a first nibble OR they are so skimpy on the servings you ask yourself why did they even bother having this event?   LOL) Been there and done that, hence the importance of responding to an invitation. 

The French phrase "répondez s'il vous plaît" (RSVP) means "please reply" in English.  It is used when someone wants to know by a specific date, whether you intend to come or not.  Use your manners and reply.  Call, email or the preferred method, hand write your response.  For most formal/semi-formal socials you normally receive an invitation with a response card included. Be kind and fill it out and send it back before the date indicated.  More informal socials such as parties and such you can normally get by with a phone call, text or email.

Think of it this way, if it was your money wouldn't you expect a response?  In this time of economic concern be considerate and always respond whether you will be in attendance or not.  Always respond.